I have just spent the last few hours stinkingly hungover in a packed cinema full of popcorn-chewing children; by personal choice.
I lust after the old hangover days. Shelley and I spending the entire day horizontal in our pyjamas in our flat, inventing straws that would mean that we didn't even have to lift our head to drink our pints of squash but instead would be able to remain completely motionless at all times.
Things are different these days, obvs. Although having said that, since we've convinced Sebi in the last month that it is actually possible for him to leave his bed without either of us arriving in his room to cajole him out of it, life it definitely better of a weekend morning, particularly for Poor Stu. I was vaguely aware of one of them arriving in our room this morning at some point to suggest that it might be time for one of their parents to arise and give them breakfast. I put my left foot underneath Stuart's bottom in a convincing manner until I was aware that the bottom had vanished and I could take hostage of the entire Super-Kingsize Bed, (rather that just the 80% I was holding up until that point).
Long gone are the days of actually having to engage with a child pre 9.30am. Hallelujah! I reckon Zak may be able to take charge of breakfast soon too, although my dear husband isn't a slave to sleep in the same way that I am.
Apparently I was drunk last night. I KNOW! Can you believe it? Of course you can. The interesting fact that was raised by my husband this evening was that I was actually visibly drunker than him for most of the evening. This is relatively unusual and worthy of a mention in his book as he was therefore able to pull me on my behaviour today which he enjoyed greatly. I did nothing of note. No bodily parts were out, abusive emails were sent or homeless people or animals adopted. All good. We were out with comparatively 'new' friends however, and Stuart said I was in my prime of showing off to a new audience. Every other word was disgusting and I trotted out my three most hilarious stories at top volume, pausing with the utmost certainty at the points for appreciative laughter. Sad cow. Sad, yet totally fucking hilarious, cow.
Anyway, 'The Lego Movie' was exactly what was needed this afternoon. I didn't have to think/interact/concentrate or parent for two hours. Then stuffed my fat face with pizza immediately after in Prezzo. Happy days. I just love half-term. Particularly I love it from tomorrow when the chiddlers are racing up the motorway to spend most of it in Redditch whilst Stu and I drink champagne and eat out every night. Smug? Rather.
Sunday, 16 February 2014
Saturday, 8 February 2014
Drinkin' 'n Drama
I am halfway through one of my MA weekends. I've said it before and I'll keep on saying it - who on EARTH thought it was a good idea putting these hardcore days after a Friday and a Saturday night? Destined for trouble.
The first weekend in the autumn term I was really good and really sober. Shock horror I have not kept this level of discipline up and last night reverted to a Friday night bottle of wine. Even though it doesn't start until 10am and is just down the road, I was feeling, and sweating, that bottle of wine today after six hours of intensive physical theatre training. How then, have I combated this tonight? By opening a bottle of champagne already to celebrate a fantastic day. What. A. Knob. There is actually no helping some people.
This led me to reminiscing about my final year at University. One of my best friends at Uni, Lynsey, and I, had chosen a module called '20th Century Practitioners' or something similar. We had to get into pairs and each pair had to present on a Practitioner on different weeks during the term. Lynsey and I had been given 'Meyerhold' and I must say that having studied and taught Drama on and off for about 20 years or so now I would still struggle to tell you very much about that chap. Needless to say Lynsey and I did NOTHING for a long time that term apart from bitching about the dullness or other groups' presentations. When we finally got around to preparing ours it was going to be absolutely epic and exciting.
So, we arrive at the evening before the morning of our 9am presentation. Nothing has been done. Nothing. Oh, and the library is now shut. We had exactly one book between us with about half a page on the not-so-infamous Meyerhold, 12 hours to prepare and a stack of 'emergency' unopened bottles of wine. To cut a long and pretty painful story short, we stayed up all night, drank all the wine and presented at 9am in our lecture, shitfaced. We started off by hiding behind a desk, giggling, and jumping out, maybe in mask? Anyhow, that was the high point and it went rapidly downhill from there. We got a bollocking from our tutor (who I had a bit of a crush on and I have a nasty memory of drunkenly winking 'alluringly' at him whilst he was telling us off). Even our peers, even our friends were embarrassed for us and the things that had seemed so hilarious at 4am were just drunken, inappropriate and lame at 9. It still amuses Lynsey and myself however 18 years on, particularly as we managed, somehow, to pass the module in the end.
I think I'm in a better place that that these days. I don't think, (never say never), that I would actually turn up drunk to my Masters degree sessions. I come out of the sessions full of a complete and total satisfaction with what I have taken part in and absolutely sure that my professional life is in the best place it could possibly be at the moment. Today, I went straight to pick Seb up from 'Top Hat'. It amused me therefore as I watched the last five minutes of his lesson through the door to think that he was doing pretty much the same as I had been doing about half an hour previously. Slightly more Disney focussed and less stylised but definitely the same ball-park. It's no wonder really that Sebi is the only person in my personal circle so far, (has also been tried out pissed on Stu, Shelley and Sam at various points), to appreciate my sharing of contemporary Indian dance moves. He just sat enraptured as he finished his chinese takeaway and I hunted imaginary tigers through the kitchen. Needless to say Stu and Zak had long since retired to the lounge with the rugby. Bring on tomorrow. Can't fucking wait.
The first weekend in the autumn term I was really good and really sober. Shock horror I have not kept this level of discipline up and last night reverted to a Friday night bottle of wine. Even though it doesn't start until 10am and is just down the road, I was feeling, and sweating, that bottle of wine today after six hours of intensive physical theatre training. How then, have I combated this tonight? By opening a bottle of champagne already to celebrate a fantastic day. What. A. Knob. There is actually no helping some people.
This led me to reminiscing about my final year at University. One of my best friends at Uni, Lynsey, and I, had chosen a module called '20th Century Practitioners' or something similar. We had to get into pairs and each pair had to present on a Practitioner on different weeks during the term. Lynsey and I had been given 'Meyerhold' and I must say that having studied and taught Drama on and off for about 20 years or so now I would still struggle to tell you very much about that chap. Needless to say Lynsey and I did NOTHING for a long time that term apart from bitching about the dullness or other groups' presentations. When we finally got around to preparing ours it was going to be absolutely epic and exciting.
So, we arrive at the evening before the morning of our 9am presentation. Nothing has been done. Nothing. Oh, and the library is now shut. We had exactly one book between us with about half a page on the not-so-infamous Meyerhold, 12 hours to prepare and a stack of 'emergency' unopened bottles of wine. To cut a long and pretty painful story short, we stayed up all night, drank all the wine and presented at 9am in our lecture, shitfaced. We started off by hiding behind a desk, giggling, and jumping out, maybe in mask? Anyhow, that was the high point and it went rapidly downhill from there. We got a bollocking from our tutor (who I had a bit of a crush on and I have a nasty memory of drunkenly winking 'alluringly' at him whilst he was telling us off). Even our peers, even our friends were embarrassed for us and the things that had seemed so hilarious at 4am were just drunken, inappropriate and lame at 9. It still amuses Lynsey and myself however 18 years on, particularly as we managed, somehow, to pass the module in the end.
I think I'm in a better place that that these days. I don't think, (never say never), that I would actually turn up drunk to my Masters degree sessions. I come out of the sessions full of a complete and total satisfaction with what I have taken part in and absolutely sure that my professional life is in the best place it could possibly be at the moment. Today, I went straight to pick Seb up from 'Top Hat'. It amused me therefore as I watched the last five minutes of his lesson through the door to think that he was doing pretty much the same as I had been doing about half an hour previously. Slightly more Disney focussed and less stylised but definitely the same ball-park. It's no wonder really that Sebi is the only person in my personal circle so far, (has also been tried out pissed on Stu, Shelley and Sam at various points), to appreciate my sharing of contemporary Indian dance moves. He just sat enraptured as he finished his chinese takeaway and I hunted imaginary tigers through the kitchen. Needless to say Stu and Zak had long since retired to the lounge with the rugby. Bring on tomorrow. Can't fucking wait.
Sunday, 26 January 2014
Golden Girls
Shelley and I went out to Bar 62 on Friday night. We have drunk in there for years and we were discussing over a champagne/G&T or 15, how the clientele had changed over the course of our frequenting. Everyone these days in there looked a little bit old... and Mummy-ish. Wasn't it funny how their client-base had changed? The realisation dawned soon enough that we were not actually looking at these people in the correct light however. We belonged to that group and the ambience of the bar seemed to have grown older, as we had and we fitted in perfectly.
I was telling Shell about how when I went out with my Uni mates in the summer, (and I really can't remember if I told them this or not on the night, so I may get a few rude comments if they are reading), I came back from the loo, (pissed, obvs.), and was cross that our table in the pub had been taken over by a load of older women. Oh no, but it hadn't. It's just in my head my Uni mates are still aged between 18 and 21 and not between 36 and forrrrttt....(s'alright Lyns, I stopped myself).
The differences are subtle in mine and Shell's nights out together, but are most definitely there. Neither of us puked or had to carry the other one into a taxi at the end of the night. There was no freezing our arses off in the garden for a cigarette anymore. We made a decision to leave just BEFORE last orders rather than having to be peeled off the bar and thrown out the door as they were locking up. We ate a proper meal, instead of the 'eating's cheating' philosophy and the 'why waste good booze money on food' idea that we held in our twenties. Nobody snogged anyone, took any of their clothes off, or did anything illegal. Yet, I still managed to have a brilliant night! Oh dear - I'm officially old. :-(
We still were disgusted at the cheek of the drunk, really old ma, (totes at least 45), that came to chat us up. We're not that old. He was definitely punching way above his weight. Fortunately, I am swift to deal with such unwelcome intruders. It went something like this:
DROM: 'Am I interrupting anything?'
ME: 'Yes.'
*PAUSE*
DROM: 'Should I go away then?'
ME: 'Yes.'
*PAUSE then slow, uncomfortable saunter away by DROM*
Cue uncontrollable laughter from the completely unhelpful Mrs Williams...
I think we are beginning to realise that we aren't 21 any longer, or even 25. It's taken a while. On the plus side it meant that we could wake up on Saturday morning knowing that we hadn't been sick/snogged someone/been thrown out of any bars/done anything illegal. On the minus side it did mean that we didn't need a hilarious cringing phonecall to fill in the blanks from the night before. I always enjoyed those phonecalls much more than Shelley as I never had the three hour black holes that she did the next day.
There is a lot of reminiscing in our conversations when we're out these days. Do you remember the night of the rotating sick/naked star jumps across the road/ugly blind date man? It does make me wonder what we will talk about in ten years time? We really aren't creating any gossip any longer and I can't imagine us recalling the night in Bar 62 when we had a lovely meal, great catch-up and went home before closing... Maybe the stories from our twenties are good enough to keep us entertained forever? Or maybe, just maybe, this is a temporary blip of sanity and once we have shed the shackles of small dependents we may revert to prancing about half-naked and puking again? For everybody else's sake, I sincerely hope not.
I was telling Shell about how when I went out with my Uni mates in the summer, (and I really can't remember if I told them this or not on the night, so I may get a few rude comments if they are reading), I came back from the loo, (pissed, obvs.), and was cross that our table in the pub had been taken over by a load of older women. Oh no, but it hadn't. It's just in my head my Uni mates are still aged between 18 and 21 and not between 36 and forrrrttt....(s'alright Lyns, I stopped myself).
We still were disgusted at the cheek of the drunk, really old ma, (totes at least 45), that came to chat us up. We're not that old. He was definitely punching way above his weight. Fortunately, I am swift to deal with such unwelcome intruders. It went something like this:
DROM: 'Am I interrupting anything?'
ME: 'Yes.'
*PAUSE*
DROM: 'Should I go away then?'
ME: 'Yes.'
*PAUSE then slow, uncomfortable saunter away by DROM*
Cue uncontrollable laughter from the completely unhelpful Mrs Williams...
I think we are beginning to realise that we aren't 21 any longer, or even 25. It's taken a while. On the plus side it meant that we could wake up on Saturday morning knowing that we hadn't been sick/snogged someone/been thrown out of any bars/done anything illegal. On the minus side it did mean that we didn't need a hilarious cringing phonecall to fill in the blanks from the night before. I always enjoyed those phonecalls much more than Shelley as I never had the three hour black holes that she did the next day.
There is a lot of reminiscing in our conversations when we're out these days. Do you remember the night of the rotating sick/naked star jumps across the road/ugly blind date man? It does make me wonder what we will talk about in ten years time? We really aren't creating any gossip any longer and I can't imagine us recalling the night in Bar 62 when we had a lovely meal, great catch-up and went home before closing... Maybe the stories from our twenties are good enough to keep us entertained forever? Or maybe, just maybe, this is a temporary blip of sanity and once we have shed the shackles of small dependents we may revert to prancing about half-naked and puking again? For everybody else's sake, I sincerely hope not.
Saturday, 11 January 2014
Enter Stage Left
Sebi has been to his first drama class this afternoon. I've sold my true drama soul and signed him up to one of these glitzy franchised weekend stage schools that I've secretly always despised. Why then? Because, I'm afraid my littlest all-singing all-dancing performing seal may actually bloody love it.
Stu wasn't a fan of the idea at all at first. He accused me of trying to create a Mini-Me and pointed out that one Drama Queen in the house is more than enough. I think unfortunately it is too late for that; the monster has already been created. We might as well channel the show-off's energy therefore otherwise he will only start exposing himself in public again. (Just in case there is any doubt here, I am referring to Sebi and not Stu.) Seb was cast as the donkey in this year's play, hardly the most auspicious part. When I asked him how the rehearsals were going just before Christmas, he told me that he made sure that when he came on he did it in slow-motion so that everyone in the audience would definitely be looking at the donkey. Point proven - to try and guide him away from 'showing-off' at this juncture would definitely be shutting the stable door after the donkey had bolted (in slow-motion).
I'm paying the crippling fees. I don't think I can inflict rinsing the joint account on my poor husband as well as helping create a son who is more dancer than defender. Then there is the 'kit' that you need. Tap shoes AND jazz shoes. Really? At four years old? Yep, apparently so. Oh well, in for a penny, in for £245 I suppose! Owch.
Do I really want him to get the bug for this though? Will I be kicking myself in 14 years time when he is trying to get into drama school rather than reading Law/Medicine/anythingthatmightactuallygethimajob at Uni? I hope not. One of my old work colleagues, when I was working in Marketing, used to refer to my Performing Arts degree as 'Muppet Studies and Underwater Basket-weaving' as he thought that would have been equally as useful.
Let's just see how we go I guess. He came out of two hours hard-graft today declaring that he had loved it. I'm not sure how much of that might of been having his own forty-pence to spend on sweets in the tuck shop at break though. I'll add that to the bill then shall I? A friend pointed out this afternoon that surely being a drama teacher, I could just teach him myself couldn't I? I suppose I could but I have a feeling that we might clash a little and sod doing that on a Saturday anyway. I may reconsider though at some point if his drama classes become more than my salary.
A star is born? I don't think so for a minute but my goodness I look forward to the first time Sebi tap-dances in front of his Grandad. ;-)
Stu wasn't a fan of the idea at all at first. He accused me of trying to create a Mini-Me and pointed out that one Drama Queen in the house is more than enough. I think unfortunately it is too late for that; the monster has already been created. We might as well channel the show-off's energy therefore otherwise he will only start exposing himself in public again. (Just in case there is any doubt here, I am referring to Sebi and not Stu.) Seb was cast as the donkey in this year's play, hardly the most auspicious part. When I asked him how the rehearsals were going just before Christmas, he told me that he made sure that when he came on he did it in slow-motion so that everyone in the audience would definitely be looking at the donkey. Point proven - to try and guide him away from 'showing-off' at this juncture would definitely be shutting the stable door after the donkey had bolted (in slow-motion).
I'm paying the crippling fees. I don't think I can inflict rinsing the joint account on my poor husband as well as helping create a son who is more dancer than defender. Then there is the 'kit' that you need. Tap shoes AND jazz shoes. Really? At four years old? Yep, apparently so. Oh well, in for a penny, in for £245 I suppose! Owch.
Do I really want him to get the bug for this though? Will I be kicking myself in 14 years time when he is trying to get into drama school rather than reading Law/Medicine/anythingthatmightactuallygethimajob at Uni? I hope not. One of my old work colleagues, when I was working in Marketing, used to refer to my Performing Arts degree as 'Muppet Studies and Underwater Basket-weaving' as he thought that would have been equally as useful.
Let's just see how we go I guess. He came out of two hours hard-graft today declaring that he had loved it. I'm not sure how much of that might of been having his own forty-pence to spend on sweets in the tuck shop at break though. I'll add that to the bill then shall I? A friend pointed out this afternoon that surely being a drama teacher, I could just teach him myself couldn't I? I suppose I could but I have a feeling that we might clash a little and sod doing that on a Saturday anyway. I may reconsider though at some point if his drama classes become more than my salary.
A star is born? I don't think so for a minute but my goodness I look forward to the first time Sebi tap-dances in front of his Grandad. ;-)
Wednesday, 1 January 2014
NYE
Oh what a night. Where to start?
As I was cleaning the house in preparation yesterday, I realised it was completely futile, scrubbing floors for people to walk on in dirty feet and cleaning a loo for people to piss and vomit all over - pointless! However, I'm obviously turning into my mother and can't let people walk into a dirty house.
Fraser was the first to arrive. He'd legged it and let his dear wife wait for the babysitter - good skills. Everyone was extraordinarily generous in their gifts last night but when Frase turned up with two bottles of champagne AND a bottle of red wine AND some chocolate brownie bits AND some vintage cheddar, I suggested that he might have gone slightly over the top. He immediately agreed and told me he'd tried to keep the cheddar but had been outvoted by his better half.
I have a serious love/hate relationship with our dear friend Ralph. It gave me great pleasure therefore to rip a shred or two off him for daring to place his champagne flute on the polished wood when there were a hundred coasters at his disposal. I went to town and bollocked him unnecessarily loudly and completely until he told me that actually it wasn't his glass at all. Oops. I apologised begrudgingly, it doesn't come easily, and then nearly decked him later when he said it was his glass after all!
Stu and I had 'discussed' earlier in the day that maybe everyone would be better behaved if the spirit cabinet stayed locked. The boys obviously decided that this was not the correct order of play and farcically broke into the spirits' cabinet every time I wasn't looking. They retrieved a bottle of Calvados but it was like a game of Grandmother's Footsteps and every time I looked their way they tried to style it out by dancing. It was not a pretty sight.
We had a fabulous surprise visit from Tina and Al, all the way from Hastings. Thankfully Ralph was having a piss at the time and so let them in. Otherwise I think they could've been at the door all night!
We were complimented on the good behaviour of our unseen children by everybody all evening. Poor kids. I got my husband's permission to go and wake Zak up for midnight as I thought he would love to get up in the night; (we all know better than to wake Seb). When I went up to Zak's bedroom and asked him if he would like to come down and say 'Happy New Year' to Mummy's friends, he rolled over and said he would rather stay asleep thank you very much. Fair.
This morning they pretty much fended for themselves as a parent didn't arise until 10am, ish. Luckily they are slightly more self-sufficient these days. I still feel the teeniest bit guilty about our last New Year's Eve party three years ago when we came down in the morning to find our three year old Zak foraging stale left over rolls from the kitchen table. MOTY.
As I arrived for our annual family/best friends lunch today, I suddenly remembered that I had texted the host at 3am the night before to let him know that all was well and I had prepared the required puddings. I hoped he might have forgotten but apparently it was quite fresh in his memory as he had gone to bed at 10pm with his ill wife and then been woken by me. HAPPY NEW YEAR!
I couldn't have asked for a more fabulous group of people to see the New Year in with. Good job you lovely bunch. xxxx
As I was cleaning the house in preparation yesterday, I realised it was completely futile, scrubbing floors for people to walk on in dirty feet and cleaning a loo for people to piss and vomit all over - pointless! However, I'm obviously turning into my mother and can't let people walk into a dirty house.
Fraser was the first to arrive. He'd legged it and let his dear wife wait for the babysitter - good skills. Everyone was extraordinarily generous in their gifts last night but when Frase turned up with two bottles of champagne AND a bottle of red wine AND some chocolate brownie bits AND some vintage cheddar, I suggested that he might have gone slightly over the top. He immediately agreed and told me he'd tried to keep the cheddar but had been outvoted by his better half.
I have a serious love/hate relationship with our dear friend Ralph. It gave me great pleasure therefore to rip a shred or two off him for daring to place his champagne flute on the polished wood when there were a hundred coasters at his disposal. I went to town and bollocked him unnecessarily loudly and completely until he told me that actually it wasn't his glass at all. Oops. I apologised begrudgingly, it doesn't come easily, and then nearly decked him later when he said it was his glass after all!
Stu and I had 'discussed' earlier in the day that maybe everyone would be better behaved if the spirit cabinet stayed locked. The boys obviously decided that this was not the correct order of play and farcically broke into the spirits' cabinet every time I wasn't looking. They retrieved a bottle of Calvados but it was like a game of Grandmother's Footsteps and every time I looked their way they tried to style it out by dancing. It was not a pretty sight.
We had a fabulous surprise visit from Tina and Al, all the way from Hastings. Thankfully Ralph was having a piss at the time and so let them in. Otherwise I think they could've been at the door all night!
We were complimented on the good behaviour of our unseen children by everybody all evening. Poor kids. I got my husband's permission to go and wake Zak up for midnight as I thought he would love to get up in the night; (we all know better than to wake Seb). When I went up to Zak's bedroom and asked him if he would like to come down and say 'Happy New Year' to Mummy's friends, he rolled over and said he would rather stay asleep thank you very much. Fair.
This morning they pretty much fended for themselves as a parent didn't arise until 10am, ish. Luckily they are slightly more self-sufficient these days. I still feel the teeniest bit guilty about our last New Year's Eve party three years ago when we came down in the morning to find our three year old Zak foraging stale left over rolls from the kitchen table. MOTY.
As I arrived for our annual family/best friends lunch today, I suddenly remembered that I had texted the host at 3am the night before to let him know that all was well and I had prepared the required puddings. I hoped he might have forgotten but apparently it was quite fresh in his memory as he had gone to bed at 10pm with his ill wife and then been woken by me. HAPPY NEW YEAR!
I couldn't have asked for a more fabulous group of people to see the New Year in with. Good job you lovely bunch. xxxx
Sunday, 22 December 2013
Christmas Conscience
I'm breaking my rule about never blogging after two glasses. By quite a lot. Feel free to go away again.
There is a post going around Facebook at the moment which is entitled 'When your Mummy says she is fat.'. I read about two sentences and then gave up. For all my kids' problems in the world, they will not learn about low-self-image from their mother. Fact.
However, they do learn a lot of shit from me. They are tired, over-excited and we are all slightly emotional after some wider family issues this week. This has led me at various points to refer to either of them as spoilt, selfish, horrible and nasty. My children don't really deserve any of that nastiness. If we were to look at it as a whole picture maybe we would see that their bordering on spoilt-selfish-horrible-nastiness could possibly be a reflection of my drunken-busy-boring-selfishness.
I even gave them a lecture on Jesus this afternoon. What was Christmas all about? We got as far as a baby, a King and a little bit of goodness. I leapt on the goodness to achieve my aim of trying to instil the fact that as a family we need to be dead nice to each other over the festive period.
I feel sorry for them though. Stu works from home and regardless of all my extra-curricular, chosen arrangements, I actually only go to work two days a week. I'm expecting more therefore from my summer-born Year 2 and Reception Year boys after their first term than I'm willing to provide from myself. An afternoon of Veuve drinking with a lovely, bigger family than ours has put things in persective somewhat. Christmas is about loving our nearest and dearest as hard as we possibly can, and being grateful for what we have been blessed with. Thank the Lord for alcohol though and as I was watching the 'Outnumbered' Christmas Special the other night, I was delighted to see the Mum reaching for the wine bottle and then being told off as it was only 11am. She put it back for a minute and then grabbed it again saying, "Oh, it's ok, it's Christmas."
Amen.
There is a post going around Facebook at the moment which is entitled 'When your Mummy says she is fat.'. I read about two sentences and then gave up. For all my kids' problems in the world, they will not learn about low-self-image from their mother. Fact.
However, they do learn a lot of shit from me. They are tired, over-excited and we are all slightly emotional after some wider family issues this week. This has led me at various points to refer to either of them as spoilt, selfish, horrible and nasty. My children don't really deserve any of that nastiness. If we were to look at it as a whole picture maybe we would see that their bordering on spoilt-selfish-horrible-nastiness could possibly be a reflection of my drunken-busy-boring-selfishness.
I even gave them a lecture on Jesus this afternoon. What was Christmas all about? We got as far as a baby, a King and a little bit of goodness. I leapt on the goodness to achieve my aim of trying to instil the fact that as a family we need to be dead nice to each other over the festive period.
I feel sorry for them though. Stu works from home and regardless of all my extra-curricular, chosen arrangements, I actually only go to work two days a week. I'm expecting more therefore from my summer-born Year 2 and Reception Year boys after their first term than I'm willing to provide from myself. An afternoon of Veuve drinking with a lovely, bigger family than ours has put things in persective somewhat. Christmas is about loving our nearest and dearest as hard as we possibly can, and being grateful for what we have been blessed with. Thank the Lord for alcohol though and as I was watching the 'Outnumbered' Christmas Special the other night, I was delighted to see the Mum reaching for the wine bottle and then being told off as it was only 11am. She put it back for a minute and then grabbed it again saying, "Oh, it's ok, it's Christmas."
Amen.
Monday, 16 December 2013
Time after Time
I did bath and bed for both boys tonight whereas normally we do one each when Stu's around. It was slightly more frenetic than usual as they were tired and it left me reflecting on generally how much easier the bedtime routine is now they are a bit older. I remember when Zak was nearly two and Seb was only a few weeks old flying into a complete panic when Stu had to work a bit later one night than normal. "But... you HAVE to be home for bath time, how on earth am I meant to do both of them on my own otherwise?!" Somebody more sane than myself would probably have sacked bathtime off for that night, put CBeebies on and had a large gin and tonic. I always strictly adhered to the sacred bedtime routine however and could not break it, whatever shit was going down, (and a lot of shit went down in those days)!
This all led me to wondering what people in the 'non-small kid world' filled their time with in the busy tea/bath/bed time between 5 and 7pm? I know it is no different to filling two hours any other time of the day but it is so ingrained in me now though that I can't possibly imagine what I would otherwise be doing. I'm slightly afraid to imagine that Stu and I may well fill that time in the future firmly in the pub. Surely not on a no-alcohol Monday though?
I'm a right clock-watcher. Our whole lives run to a military-style regime that is ruled over by the Great Master Time. I remember a friend quizzing me a few years ago on what really would happen if my kids' tea was served up at 5.05pm instead of 5pm one night. I'm sure nothing untoward would happen but I doubt very much that we will ever find out.
I am fully aware of how anal this all sounds but it works for me. Shelley can't understand how I always cram so much in and am never late. She claims it is because I know precisely how long everything takes and can't understand how that is. I guess you learn how long things take when you do them at EXACTLY the same time each day...
I honestly have no idea how Stu fits into all of this, normally quite cheerfully. At least the kids have been born into it so don't know any different. Stu had a carefree, easy existence though, fluidly not worrying about any time, apart from maybe what time he arrived at work each day. I guess he has just been trained; conditioned; brainwashed? It amused me when he went to stay with a single mate of his a while back and came home honestly disgusted about how dirty his house was. A changed man from the one whose open packet of green chicken slices I surreptitiously binned from his fridge the first night I stayed over there!
Anyway, forgive me, must dash. It is 7.38pm and the dishwasher will need emptying in a moment in the Corrie adverts. Joking! Or am I?
This all led me to wondering what people in the 'non-small kid world' filled their time with in the busy tea/bath/bed time between 5 and 7pm? I know it is no different to filling two hours any other time of the day but it is so ingrained in me now though that I can't possibly imagine what I would otherwise be doing. I'm slightly afraid to imagine that Stu and I may well fill that time in the future firmly in the pub. Surely not on a no-alcohol Monday though?
I'm a right clock-watcher. Our whole lives run to a military-style regime that is ruled over by the Great Master Time. I remember a friend quizzing me a few years ago on what really would happen if my kids' tea was served up at 5.05pm instead of 5pm one night. I'm sure nothing untoward would happen but I doubt very much that we will ever find out.
I am fully aware of how anal this all sounds but it works for me. Shelley can't understand how I always cram so much in and am never late. She claims it is because I know precisely how long everything takes and can't understand how that is. I guess you learn how long things take when you do them at EXACTLY the same time each day...
I honestly have no idea how Stu fits into all of this, normally quite cheerfully. At least the kids have been born into it so don't know any different. Stu had a carefree, easy existence though, fluidly not worrying about any time, apart from maybe what time he arrived at work each day. I guess he has just been trained; conditioned; brainwashed? It amused me when he went to stay with a single mate of his a while back and came home honestly disgusted about how dirty his house was. A changed man from the one whose open packet of green chicken slices I surreptitiously binned from his fridge the first night I stayed over there!
Anyway, forgive me, must dash. It is 7.38pm and the dishwasher will need emptying in a moment in the Corrie adverts. Joking! Or am I?
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